1 Nephi 16 (9/22)

Reading for Class on Monday, 9/25: 1 NEPHI 16 

Points to Ponder:


  1. What is the Liahona? What does it symbolize?
  2. How did the Liahona work?
  3. Why would God give them the Liahona?
  4. What can we learn from Nephi's broken bow?

Quotes to read and copy into your scriptures as you consider what your personal Liahonas are:

1. “As we strive to align our attitudes and actions with righteousness, then the Holy Ghost becomes

for us today what the Liahona was for Lehi and his family in their day. The very factors that caused
the Liahona to work for Lehi will likewise invite the Holy Ghost into our lives. And the very factors
that caused the Liahona not to work anciently will likewise cause us to withdraw ourselves from the
Holy Ghost today” (David A. Bednar, “That We May Always Have His Spirit to Be with Us,” Ensign
or Liahona, May 2006, 30)

2. “The words of Christ can be a personal Liahona for each of us, showing us the way. Let us not be
slothful because of the easiness of the way. Let us in faith take the words of Christ into our minds
and into our hearts as they are recorded in sacred scripture and as they are uttered by living prophets,
seers, and revelators. Let us with faith and diligence feast upon the words of Christ, for the words
of Christ will be our spiritual Liahona telling us all things what we should do” (W. Rolfe Kerr, “The
Words of Christ—Our Spiritual Liahona,” Ensign or Liahona, May 2004, 37).

3. “The same Lord who provided a Liahona for Lehi provides for you and for me today a rare and
valuable gift to give direction to our lives, to mark the hazards to our safety, and to chart the way,
even safe passage—not to a promised land, but to our heavenly home. The gift to which I refer is
known as your patriarchal blessing. . . .
“. . . Your blessing is not to be folded neatly and tucked away. It is not to be framed or published.
Rather, it is to be read. It is to be loved. It is to be followed. Your patriarchal blessing will see you
through the darkest night. It will guide you through life’s dangers. . . . Your patriarchal blessing is to you a personal Liahona to chart your course and guide your way” (Thomas S. Monson, “Your Patriarchal Blessing: A Liahona of Light,” Ensign, Nov. 1986, 65–66).

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PATRIARCHAL BLESSINGS

* All quotes come from James E. Faust, "Priesthood Blessings," Ensign, Nov. 1995, 62 except where specifically referenced

What is a Patriarchal Blessing?

A patriarchal blessing is very sacred and personal, but it may be shared with close family members. It is a sacred guideline of counsel, promises, and information from the Lord; however, a person should not expect the blessing to detail all that will happen to him or her or to answer all questions. The fact that one's patriarchal blessing may not mention an important event in life, such as a mission or marriage, does not mean that it will not happen.

President Thomas S. Monson said, "A patriarchal blessing literally contains chapters from your book of eternal possibilities" (Ensign, Nov. 1986, 66).

What is generally found in a patriarchal blessing?
As moved upon by the Holy Spirit, the patriarch declares by inspiration the lineage in the house of Israel of the recipient, together with such blessings, spiritual gifts, promises, advice, admonition, and warnings the patriarch feels inspired to give.
                           
How old should I be?
Responsibility for receiving a patriarchal blessing rests primarily on the individual when he or she has sufficient understanding of the significance of a patriarchal blessing. I encourage all members of the Church having this maturity to become worthy and obtain their blessings… Therefore, it is important that the recipient be young enough that many of the significant events of life are in the future.

Members should seek blessings as they feel inspired to do so. There is no fixed age at which one may receive a patriarchal blessing. The bishop ensures that the member is of sufficient age and maturity to understand the meaning and significance of the blessing… (Boyd K. Packer, "The Stake Patriarch," Ensign, Nov. 2002, 42).

Where does the Patriarch get his information for the blessing?
The patriarch has no blessing of his own to give… All blessings come from God. Our Heavenly Father knows His children. He knows their strengths and weaknesses. He knows their capabilities and potential. Our patriarchal blessings indicate what He expects of us and what our potential can be.

How can a patriarchal blessing help me?
Our blessings can encourage us when we are discouraged, strengthen us when we are fearful, comfort us when we sorrow, give us courage when we are filled with anxiety, and lift us up when we are weak in spirit. Our testimonies can be strengthened every time we read our patriarchal blessings.

Is it possible for members of the same family to be assigned to different tribes?
Some might be disturbed because members of the same family have blessings declaring them to be of a different lineage. A few families are of a mixed lineage. We believe that the house of Israel today constitutes a large measure of the human family. Because the tribes have intermixed one with another, one child may be declared to be from the tribe of Ephraim and another of the same family from Manasseh or one of the other tribes. The blessing of one tribe, therefore, may be dominant in one child, and the blessing of another tribe dominant in yet another child. So, children from the same parents could receive the blessings of different tribes.

How do I prepare?
Study. The more you understand what a patriarchal blessing is and why you receive one, the more you will be able to appreciate its significance. If you have any questions, don't hesitate to ask your parents or bishop.
Keep the commandments. Living righteously will allow you to feel the Spirit. It is through the Spirit that you will understand your blessing. And, like any blessing, the fulfillment of promises made to you in your patriarchal blessing will depend on your faithfulness.
Talk to your bishop. Your bishop or branch president will interview you to determine your worthiness. If he feels you are prepared, he will give you a recommend to receive your blessing. It is your responsibility to make an appointment with the patriarch.
Fast and pray. Fasting and prayer are good ways to make sure you are spiritually prepared to receive your blessing. If you feel nervous about receiving your blessing, pray for the comfort of the Holy Ghost. As well as praying for your own preparedness, it is also appropriate to pray for the patriarch, that he will receive the inspiration he needs.
Learn humility. The blessings and promises you receive in your patriarchal blessing will only be possible if you are willing to live worthy of those blessings. Prepare yourself to do whatever the Lord asks of you in your blessing.
Keep your blessing sacred. Remember that your patriarchal blessing is your personal scripture. You may wish to invite your parents to be present when you receive your blessing. If you choose to share it with others, only do so with close family members.
Study your blessing. Your blessing will be recorded and you will receive a printed copy. You should study it often. "It is a sacred guideline of counsel, promises, and information from the Lord; however, a person should not expect the blessing to detail all that will happen to him or her or to answer all questions," said President James E. Faust. "The fact that one's patriarchal blessing may not mention an important event in life, such as a mission or marriage, does not mean that it will not happen (Q&A: Questions and Answers, New Era, May 2002).

Now that I have one, what do I do with it?
In order to receive the fulfillment of our patriarchal blessings, we should treasure in our hearts the precious words they contain, ponder them, and so live that we will obtain the blessings in mortality and a crown of righteousness in the hereafter… Patriarchal blessings should be read humbly, prayerfully, and frequently.

Who can I share my blessing with?
Except for members of the immediate family, we should not permit others to read our blessing nor should we ask others to interpret it. Neither the patriarch nor the bishop can or should interpret it (Boyd K. Packer, "The Stake Patriarch," Ensign, Nov. 2002, 42).

President Benson said, "A patriarchal blessing is the inspired and prophetic statement of your life's mission together with blessings, cautions, and admonitions as the patriarch may be prompted to give. … Receive your patriarchal blessing under the influence of fasting and prayer, and then read it regularly that you may know God's will for you" (Ensign, May 1986, 44-45).